General Resources
AAA Foundation for Traffic Safety
Phone: 1-800-305-7233
Website: www.aaafts.org
A foundation focused on driver education, safety, and prevention. Order free brochures on driving and the older driver or buy videotapes about older drivers and safety issues. Several written driving tests for the older driver can help families deal with difficult issues.
Abledata[md]Assistive Technology
Phone: 1-800-227-0216
Website: www.abledata.com
This is an organization that catalogs of assistive technology. Product information price ranges are included on the Web site. The National Institute on Disability and Rehabilitation Research of the Department of Education funds the site but it does not endorse any of the products.
American Association of Homes and Services for the Aging
Phone: 202-783-2242
Website: www.aahsa.org
Represents 5,000 not-for-profit facilities that care for the aging and those in assisted living. The Web site has a section designated “For Consumers and Family Caregivers.” Search by city, state, zip, and type of facility or service to find a not-for-profit nursing home, assisted living facility, or community-based service.
American Association of Retired Persons (AARP)
Phone: 1-800-424-3410
Website: www.aarp.org
An educational and action organization for those 50 and older The Web site is excellent. To find caring for an aging parent info, type the word “caregiver” into the search box. AARP members can take advantage of the AARP Legal Services Network (www.aarp.org/lsn), a free first consultation with a lawyer.
Center for Medicare Advocacy
Phone: 860-456-7790; 1-800-262-4414 in Connecticut; 202-216-0028 in Washington, D.C.
Website: www.medicareadvocacy.org
This is a private, nonprofit foundation. Focus is on health care rights, especially needs of Medicare beneficiaries. The Web site has links to other sites that emphasize Medicare.
Commission on Legal Problems of the Elderly
Phone: 202-662-8690
E-mail: abaelderly@abanet.org
Website: www.abanet.org/elderly
The commission focuses on improving legal services for the elderly, with involvement of the private bar. It deals with elderly legal issues that surround HMO's, elder abuse, guardianship, and others. You can download an advance directive. (The commission is not active in all states.)
ElderWeb
Website: www.elderWeb.com
Considered the “grand daddy” of aging information Web sites. It offers a wide range of topics that affect older people; it's easy to use, has great links, and is a very good site to bookmark.
Families USA
Phone: 202-347-2417
Website: www.familiesusa.org
This is a great advocacy organization in health care and long-term care. It offers an award-winning Web site filled with consumer information on Medicare, Medicaid, prescription drug costs, a legislative action center, and Web health links. Apply your caregiving experience and become an advocate.
Meals on Wheels Association of America
Phone: 703-548-8024
Website: www.mealsonwheelsassn.org
Track down the number of the local Meals on Wheels program in your area to have meals delivered to your parents' home, or to volunteer. Or check your local phone book for Meals on Wheels.
National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys, Inc.
Phone: 520-881-4005
Website: www.naela.com
A nonprofit association that provides information, education, networking, and assistance to those who deal with the specialized issues of legal services to the elderly and disabled. The Web site also has a function that helps you find elder law attorneys in your area.
National Association for Hispanic Elderly
Phone: 1-800-953-8553
This agency provides information and referral services for elderly Hispanic and low-income people. Employment counseling, training, and placement services are available. Other referrals include housing, disaster relief, and income tax help.
National Association for Home Care
Phone: 202-547-7424
Website: www.nahc.org
This nonprofit group has an excellent Web site on home health care. Learn about all of the different services and therapies available under home care. It offers a home care and hospice locator on the site. It also offers a guide on how to choose a home care provider.
National Caucus and Center on Black Aged
Phone: 202-637-8400
Website: www.ncba-aged.org
The center's mission is to improve the quality of life among aging African-Americans. It is not a service provider; however, it offers programs in job opportunities, health care, housing options, and long-term care.
National Center for Home Equity Conversion
Phone: 651-222-6775
Website: www.reverse.org
A twenty-first-century Web site devoted to the consumer. Click on “Calculator” and get an instant estimate of your home equity. Review the sources in your state for reverse equity home mortgages. Learn all you could possibly want to know about reverse mortgages before you make any decisions.
National Consumers League
Phone: 202-835-3323
E-mail: info@nclnet.org
Website: www.nclnet.org
A private, nonprofit group advertised as the oldest consumer's group in the United States. It represents consumers on all workplace and marketplace issues. One click gives you access to information on telemarketing and Internet fraud, or drug interactions.
National Council of Senior Citizens
Phone: 1-888-373-6467
E-mail: membership@ncscerc.org
Website: www.ncscinc.org
This organization works to improve the lives of elderly people. It is a self-described activist agency representing older Americans, with over 2,000 affiliate councils. Members can call 301-578-8938 for the Nursing Home Information Service.
National Council on the Aging
Phone: 202-479-1200
Website: www.ncoa.org
An organization of agencies and professionals whose mission is to: “[el] help community organizations to enhance the lives of older adults.” Click on “Aging Issues”, then on “Caregiving” for information.
National Safety Council
Phone: 630-775-7615
Website: www.nsc.org
This council stresses highway safety. Call for pamphlets and publications. On the Web site click on “Defensive Driving Training”, then on “Defensive Driver Courses” to find a local site that offers the course “Coaching the Mature Driver.”
National Shared Housing Resource Center
Phone: 507-433-8832
E-mail: sayoung@smig.net
Website: www.nationalsharedhousing.org
This is a nonprofit national clearinghouse for information on shared housing. On the Web site you can click on "Directory," then choose a state and get the name, address, and phone number of a program, as well as a thumbnail description.
The National Women's Health Information Center
Office of Women's Health, DHHS
Phone: 1-800-994-9662
Website: www.4women.gov
A Web site with a focus on women's issues. Use the “Search” box by typing in “aging,” “caregiver,” or “elder care” for a multitude of excellent direct links. Resource information is available on Alzheimer's, empowering caregivers and working women, and elder care.
Older Women's League (OWL)
Phone: 1-800-825-3695
E-mail: owlinfo@owl-national.org
A nonprofit, 20-year-old organization that focuses on issues of women as they age, particularly women 40 and older. There are 73 chapters nationwide. It produces an annual “Mother's Day Report”[md]the 2000 issue highlights prescription drug coverage legislation.
SeniorLaw
Website: www.seniorlaw.com
Excellent one-stop source for all legal matters affecting older people. It has great links and information and its very current.
Visiting Nurses Association (VNA) of America
Phone: 1-800-426-2547
Website: www.vnaa.org
There are over 500 VNAs throughout the country providing skilled nursing, hospice, home health aides, homemakers, nutrition advice, and personal assistance. Find a VNA near you and ask if your parents are eligible for home health care.
Books
- Appleton, Michael, et al. At Home with Terminal Illness: A Family Guidebook to Hospice in the Home. Prentice Hall, 1994.
- Beresford, Larry. The Hospice Handbook. Little Brown, 1993.
- Byock, Ira. Dying Well. Putnam/Riverhead, 1997.
- Carter, Rosalynn. Helping Yourself Help Others. Times Books, 1995.
- Cosgrove, Melba, et al. How to Survive the Loss of a Love. Prelude, 1991.
- Haman, Edward A. How to Write Your Own Living Will. Sourcebooks, Inc., 1997.
- Ku[um]bler-Ross, Elisabeth, M.D. On Death and Dying. Scribner, 1997.
- Llardo, Joseph A., Ph.D. As Parents Age. VanderWyk & Burnham, 1998.
- Mace, Nancy L., and Peter V. Rabins. The 36-Hour Day. Johns Hopkins University Press, 1999 (first published in 1981).
- Maple, Steve, The Complete Idiot's Guide to Wills and Estates. Alpha Books, 1997.
- McLeod,, Beth Witrogen. Caregiving, the Spiritual Journey of Love, Loss and Renewal. John Wiley & Sons, 1999.
- Myers, Edward. When Parents Die. Penguin, 1997.
- Rob, Caroline. The Caregiver's Guide. Houghton Mifflin Company, 1991.
- Rottenberg, Dan. The Inheritor's Handbook. Simon & Schuster, 1999.
- Secunda, Victoria. Losing Your Parent. Hyperion, 2000.